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ive tried everything updating itunes, holding the power and the home button but nothing it just continues to do the inf apple logo turning it self off and on

Have you tried holding the home button while inserting charging cable with iTunes open? If that doesn’t work you might have to put it in DFU mode.

If the phone will not go into DFU mode with the buttons you can try shorting the force DFU test point so it will go into DFU mode. Remember to have it connected to pc with iTunes open. You do not need the screen connected.